When I tell people that I want to help homeless people, I get a wide range of responses. Most are initially happy to see that someone wants to do good for the world, and their community, but they are almost always a little taken aback by some common stereo types about the homeless community. Although these thoughts are not always vocalized, we all know of one common stereotype that holds people back from helping those truly in need: laziness.
Yes, I've seen the special on 20/20 where people stand on the street corner asking for money and then at the end of the day walk over to their BMW. I understand that there are con artists in the world and there are those people that are just to lazy, or not driven to help themselves, but that does not take away from that fact that homelessness is a true rising epidemic that needs serious attention.
Most homeless families are not standing on a street corner, homeless families try to stay unknown to others until they can get back on their feet. You probably don't realize that a church down the road from your house may actually be a school for homeless children during the day, or that your co-worker is living in a shelter. In my life, I have come across many homeless families, trying to get by, doing the best they can. In fact, the church a few blocks from my junior high was turned into a school for homeless children during the day, they started just after my school, and got out just before so they could come and go without ever being noticed. These schools are in almost every major city, but to protect the children and families, they are not widely spoken of, and in fact, their addresses are never published.
Contrary to what you may believe, the leading cause for homeless families is actually domestic violence, not laziness. I have known many single mothers who fled a violent relationship, most often probably saving their own lives or the lives of the children, that were forced to leave to absolutely nothing. Many try to find shelters, but with the new theme of transitioning shelters to permanent housing, families are forced to split up or fend for themselves without any resources to lean on. These women hold jobs, but without short term assistance, they are unable to save money to put down a deposit or to pay first months rent, so they are living day by day, struggling to find child care and a bed at night for their children.
Before you dismiss the entire notion of helping the homeless because you saw some con artists on another investigative report, remember that there are those in need that will not go public to save their children from exploitation, and in some instances, to remain hidden from their abusers. Think of it this way, remember learning how to ride a bike? When you get started, you need someone to stabilize you until you can find your center of balance, but as soon as you find it you are on your way and never forget it, life is the exact same way, these families just need a caring hand to help them find their center again.